@Austin The impactful ones have really been Anki (and memorization heavy stuff like it, to your point) and Notion I might count as a "tool-for-thought" as well, although sort of in a different domain.
I also agree that "making friends" could perhaps benefit from SRS-style thinking. I started an Anki deck for this purpose actually hahaha, but the UX is hard to nail, and I haven't ended up using it much.
I think you make a lot of interesting points. Thanks for sharing.